Hand in the Wheel
Well it seems like forever since I have had time to write on this page to you all. I have been dealing with issues at home which have made me realise how important the basics of communication can be. From asking the simple questions like what is for dinner to the really important one 'how are you?'. This first one is one of desire, wants, and unimportant relevance, the second one is the one we should all pay attention to. It opens the door for that person to unburden both their mind and spirit and paying basic lip service to it means we are never truly there for the people around us; holding them at arms length and ticking a box to say we care and have 'touched base'. Never before was this shown to me until recent times when I realised how out of touch with my daughter I was and how far away I truly was from being there for her. All the tell tale signs which I had put down to her age, the quietness, staying in her room and not talking, the asking to be taken to s